We sometimes get the phrase "Child Support" mixed up because of how society has painted the picture. The government system has made many believe that supporting a child should be based on a controlled monetary system. Let me explain my argument.
Each year men and women are imprisoned because of the lack of monetary support based on legal judgment. They find themselves fighting court orders because they fail to pay their court obligations.
The Social Service system requires custodial parents who may need public assistance to placing the non-custodial parent up for documented child support.
Not saying that this is all a bad thing, but the after affects can become ridiculous. Some men or women may not be able to physically pay the asked obligation.
I feel that it's unfair to the non-custodial parent who may be really putting forth effort. Why can't spending time with the children count for a form of child support. This question isn't even an option within the evaluation for the custodial parent to gain assistance.
To the men and women who face this issue with a system that ends in a bias judgment, I extend my deepest sympathy. I can relate to the lose of your drivers license, job placement, credit issues, and etc. The things that men and women have to experience when they can't offer monetary.
Look deeper into the responsibility of parenthood. As long as a parent can provide quality time with their children I think the they should be honored and the custodial parent should be given assistance. I'm sure this blog post will create a lot of comments in the discussion block below.
What do you think?
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