Tuesday, June 2, 2015

THE FEAR OF SUCCESS

Author: Armah O Dashiell

As we exercise our right to dream, we’re also obligated to willfully give it our best shot to becoming successful. Becoming successful is our own outlook of overcoming certain things within our life that may seem a little challenging. Anything worth being proud of does not come easy. It makes us as human beings feel good when we can accomplish something in which we give it everything. It’s the process that makes us the strongest. Let me give you a good example.


Richard and Maurice McDonald had a vision of speedy customer service in the restaurant business. They came up with a great business model for “McDonalds Bar B Q” and executed it the best way they knew how. They took notice to what was selling the best and they remodeled their business plans a bit by refocusing on certain key items. For a while everything was going well for them, but they begin to get comfortable with their financial success and didn’t realize they had placed a lid on their potential earnings. They forgot that the original vision was so much bigger than they had reached at the time of their stagnation point in which we also find ourselves doing at times. They reached a place to where they had to make a choice to either stay in their comfort zone financially or recreate the wheel a little to exceed where they currently found themselves. After giving thought they made the choice to sell the business to a gentleman by the name of Ray Kroc in 1955 under certain stipulations.

Ray Kroc was the seller of Multimixer Milkshake Machines in which the McDonald brothers used themselves. Ray was introduced to the McDonald brothers in 1954 by his friend named Charles Lewis who made the life changing suggestion that Ray checkout the restaurants potential. Ray met with the McDonald brothers and suggested to them that they should franchise their business because he seen a greater potential for a financial growth. The McDonald brothers took Ray up on his suggestions and the rest is history. Now we all across America love to support Richard, Maurice and Ray’s vision over 50 years later. Who doesn’t love the McDonalds Corporation?

I used this story as an example because as Richard and Maurice had a vision, so does many of you the readers of this article. What stops many of us from pursuing these visions come from our inner emotions such as the fear of failure, fear of being criticized by others, and the fear of being disconnected from those people in which we hold close to the heart. These are often what I call unnecessary road blocks. We find ourselves placing boundaries in our way voluntarily. So how can we bring forth the change to the involuntary fears that many of us face today? Let me give you a few ideas.

When you find yourself up against fear it can be really overwhelming at first. That’s why you have to know strategies of how to embrace these fears while using them for your good and not allowing them to overpower you for the worse. The first step is normally the hardest, but you have to admit to self that you let your fears get the best of you. Secondly, you have to be determined that you no longer will allow fear to stand in the way of getting things done. Lastly, you have to just take the risk of pursuing what it is you believe in while remaining positive no matter what the result may turn out to be. I encourage you the reader to pursue your dreams and let nothing stand in your way. Go for bettering yourself over becoming stagnated from what you think others may think of your dream. You'll never know your ending unless you attempt to begin. 


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